Anonymous Trying To Conceive Wish

I wish that my husband would understand that because of my health issues that waiting until he is 100% sure he wants kids may not be an option for me. The older I get the more problems there could be not only with TTC but with the child as well. I want to hold a baby that we made so badly, I want to share all the firsts with him, please let him understand this. And help us reach some kind of agreement on when we can start trying.