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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: 1andonly on Dec 18, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Almost Tired of Trying

I am about ready to give up and start coming to terms with tthe idea that I may never have a baby of my own. I was preg w/ trips 5 years ago and mc. I have been TTC for the last year with no luck. I ask why everyone I know seems to get pregnant soon as they say the word try. My sister had 2 in the last 2 years. They are wonderful but every time I see them I have to fight back tears. I just don't know what to do. Please send me all of the baby dust you have ladies. I don't want to be the childless aunt forever!!

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Posted by: Leigh1104 on Dec 15, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Another month of disappointment

Hi everyone! I know just how you feel. I am TTC my first child and have had 2 m/cs in the last 2 years. I was so hopeful this month (all the trying just felt right this time), but no, another dissappointing month. It is so aggravating and frustrating and depressing. I am just so tired of trying. I mean, this is supposed to be fun, right?! Well, I'm tired! I hate to complain, and I never post to forums like this, but I feel like there's no one who understands what I'm feeling. If I have to hear "just relax, it'll happen" on more time and smile and say "Oh, I know" I think I'll scream! Ugh! It does feel better to vent, though. Hang in there, ladies. Some day it will be our turn!

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Posted by: Eny on Dec 15, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

STOP TELLING ME YOUR GOOD NEWS!

So DH & I have been TTC for 6 months now, and nothing... granted there's been a lot of HPTs due to my wishing, hoping and "knowing" that these pre-menstral symptopms are a Baby and not AF coming. *sigh* What's the most FRUSTRATING to me is that In those 6 months I have had 9 people in my life get pregnant... out of the 9, only 1 was planned! IT KILLS ME!!! Everytime another person tells me that she's pregnant.. a part of me dies. It hurts, really...

And then I feel guilty for being jealous, and for not counting the blessings that I do have with my first born - who IMHO is the coolest 6 yr. old girl in the world! UGH!!!

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Posted by: MerrittsDream on Dec 15, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Just need to vent...ttc second child for 5 years!!

Ok...I am having a bad day today for my period came just as I expected even though I hope & pray that it fails on me at some point in the very near future. I have a 7 year old daughter, and my dh and I have been trying to conceive for 5 years now this Christmas. I don't get it...so many friends & family have all had no issues easily getting preggers...some even having had two since we have been ttc. We have unexplained reasons as to why it hasn't happened for us yet. I had an HSG a year ago last month, and my husband has been tested twice, now. My husband is the best and is always there to comfort me each month, but I hate seeing him so disappointed. My daughter doesn't quite understand...she wants a sibling. We've tried to explain that it is up to God. I have complete faith, but it is sooo hard to try and not question. Please pray for us! Thanks for listening & baby dust to all!!

God Bless!

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Posted by: pixie1621 on Dec 5, 2008
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1 1/2 AND NOTHING????GREEN EYED MOSTER........

I have ben TTC for almost a year and half now(yea that long) but so far nothing. The doctor says that their is nothing wrong with me though? I don't get it. I want to be mom so bad. I am seeing baby's EVERYWHERE!!!!! Every girl i know practically is getting prego or getting ready to have one(and i am really starting to turn into a green eyed monster). The worst part is none of them wanted or were trying to conceive it just happened, and me the one trying so hard for it isn't getting anywhere. Even every show on TV i watch now has something to do with pregnancy or someone on the show getting prego. I don't know what i am doing wrong i am at the end of my ropes. Each month it's the same let down(The let down and disappointment is really starting to hurt mine and my fiance relationship with depression it's causing) . I think i have early pregnancy symptoms and everything's going ok and them BAMM Aunt Flo. Any tips? Any kind of incite would be much appreciated.

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Posted by: mjm on Dec 3, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

When to start ttc after m/c

I was able to get pregnant after 7 months of trying and unfortunately I m/c'd at 6.5 weeks. Does anyone know how long before we can start trying again? Unfortunately when all of this was happening I was wasn't thinking about the next time and I forgot to ask my MD.

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