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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: cravingababy on Oct 14, 2009
Conception Frustrations?

Trying to conceive

I am serious when i say everyone around me is pregnant. Every month or so, one of my friends is telling me they are. Please don't get me wrong, i am so happy for them. I have wanted a baby for 6 years now. It started when i was 19 which is young, but you can't help how you feel. I have tried with my husband for over 2 years now. It has been very frustrating at times but I just have to put my trust and faith in The Lord and know that he will give me a child!

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Posted by: ToniCurtis on Oct 14, 2009
Conception Frustrations?

Hmm.. to test or NOT to test?!

Hello Ladies! So today I pose a question to those of us who are BEYOND frustrated over countless negatives... When you've been trying for months to get pregnant and are always testing before your period is due because it is SO hard to wait, when do you stop testing and wait or will you continue to test even through the heartbreak of possibly seeing ANOTHER negative result? I'm at a crossroad dolls =).Needing another woman who is TTC and TTM (Testing Too Much!) to help me decide!! Love luck and bumps to all of you!

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Posted by: chicky2 on Oct 8, 2009
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BFP now a BFN

I am devastated once again. I was sure this month it was going to finally really happen. I was going to get to tell people that I am pregnant. Tested on Sunday. Got 2 BFP, stupid me tested again on Wed. 2 BFN. should have known better. Last night flo started. I will be 41 next month. Lately my cycles have been very short. My Dr. said I would probably need something to get preg & stay preg. Looks like he is right. went through pretty much the same thing 3 1/2 ish years ago. My due date would have been Oct. 6. to top it all off my BF still isn't totally on board about the baby issue. Which means that because mother nature needs help i will probably have to do it all on my own. having a hard time coming to terms with the whole sperm donor. I want my child to know it's daddy. Times running out & I am overwhelmed. I'm terrified that it's never going to happen. I'm tired of being the outsider looking in. Is it too much to ask for one baby of my own to love? It's so hard not to feel like a failure when it seems so easy for everyone around me.

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Posted by: Betty1981 on Oct 7, 2009
Conception Frustrations?

It happend in the end....thank you to all

Hi, i just wanted to tell a positive story, i had a miscarage 6 months ago and have been trying ever since to get pregnant again i know its not long compared to most...i just wanted to say a big thank you to everyone on cycle views i don't think i could of made it throu the last couple of months without peoples help and advice and reading there storys so you don't feel alone and only one going throu it.

I have just found out i am 7 weeks pregnant so im a lucky one, i just wanted to say don't give up hope and keep trying make sure you listen and understand your body and relax and have fun in the process...i did in the end and it worked for me. I will still carry on useing the site for informaton and to see if i can help like iv been helped.

Baby dust to all!! x

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Posted by: betty66 on Oct 6, 2009
Conception Frustrations?

conceptation frustrations

My husband and I have only trying a few months . I have had 3 periods since coming off the pill I have had a 29 day cycle which I thought was good but they have been very light esp the last one. I have been using ovulation sticks and the previous two months I was ovulating around day 14 / 15 which is what mymonthlycycles predicted but this month when i used the sticks they say I am not ovulating!!!. I have done a preg test but its neg. ! I'm worrying there is something wrong with me has anybody else had simalar problems or know whats going on. Thanks xo

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Posted by: yayif on Oct 4, 2009
Conception Frustrations?

Baby dust frustration

My husband & I have been trying for over two years to have a baby. We have been seeing a fertility specialist. I am getting frustrated b/c during the months that we have been trying something seem to go wrong lately. Last month I didn't ovulate. Today I went in for my third IUI with first round of clomid. I was really excited because I was ovulating from both ovaries this time around. This we hoped would increase our chances. I left disappointed after the doctor told me my husbands sperm specimen was really low. Now, today starts my two week wait with little hope. He suggested next time definitely IVF since the last two round IUI my husband sperm count was low. Since I have insurance, I wish IVF would have been suggested from the beginning.

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