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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: doodles on Feb 2, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Ttc after Misscariage

It has been two years since i was last pregnant, after the misscariage of my daughter after five months of being pregnant. It has just been really hard to concieve. No periods for months at a time and i mean months like eight or more.I find my self crying a whole lot more i really want another baby. I get upset when out in public and i see all the othe women pregnant and im not. i've used calculators, basal temps, vatimins, every other thing under the sun and im still not pregnant.

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Posted by: missyb31 on Jan 31, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Sick and tired of negative pts.

Oh what I would give just to see two lines instead of one. My husband and I have been ttc for over a year and a half now. I have taken test after test with negative, negative, negative. We have resorted to acupunture and fifteen herbal supplements a day. I really just am at the point of throwing my hand up completely and saying forget it. Next step Clomid and God only knows what else, yeah more money to spend lol. It drives me crazy. It seems that all the unstable, unprepared families can pop them babies out by the dozen and the rest are just out of luck. I am just at my wits end. Good luck to everyone that is ttc.

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Posted by: SillyManda on Jan 30, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Frustrated With Everything

I find myself frustrated a lot more than I ever expected going into this... I made an appointment with an RE and I'm frustrated that they couldn't get me in for a month. I'm frustrated with people I see in public who aren't visibly cherishing their children. I'm frustrated at myself for being so upset about all of it. And I swear to Pete, if one more person tells me to "relax," I may well punch them in the throat. Relaxing doesn't make babies. Apparently, neither does sex.

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Posted by: jamjen on Jan 29, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Receiving Constant Advice on TTC

We have only been TTC since November, but I guess I had the expectation that we would get pregnant right away!The hardest time for me is after O, and waiting for my period. Last month I got severe PMS symptoms, so I knew it had not happened, but I still was sad the day of my period.People keep telling us to stop trying and just relax. If I hear that piece of advice one more time, I think I might scream. How do I just stop being aware of trying? Should I pretend that I don't care if I get pregnant? My DH and I do not feel stressed, just hopeful!

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Posted by: jjcloverbean on Jan 28, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

trying but no luck

making a baby is harder then we thought....either we have friends around us that breath on each other and they're pregs or try for years and nothing.....so far it's only been about 3 months, so i'm not too worried, but earlier in the month we thought i was, turns out i was just late....i didn't realize we'd be so bummed out about it...

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Posted by: Nicole1098 on Jan 24, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Hurts so bad!

My husband and I got married March 31,07. On July 20, 07 I took a test and it said I was pregnant. We were shocked but very excited. The day after I found out I started to bleed. I had to wait 2 more days until Monday to call my doctor. The nurse told me that everything was normal and it would go away... well I went in that same day to take a test there. They didn't check me or anything. Just took my pee and said yes mamm.. you are going to be a mom. Then next day I woke up in pain and things were worse. When I called my doctor they told me to come in... 4 hours later. The baby wasn't located where it should have been and I had a miscarriage. A year before I had a miscarriage my sister-in-law also had one. I am still having a hard time today dealing with it. We have been trying ever since and the hardest part is, now my sister-in-law is expecting along with many other girls that I know. I am really happy for my sister-in-law, but it still hurts me. I can't even talk to her about it and enjoy it with her. She has started to show and it kills me because right now I am supposed to be 32 weeks along. People make comments like next Christmas is going to be something special with a new baby around. I just want to say HELLO!!! You are hurting my feelings. But I don't. I just hold it in until they are gone and then I cry until I don't think I can anymore. Just needed to let this out... but I wish I could take a test today and it say yes... and then to actually have a healthy baby.-Thanks

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