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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: kaela on Jan 24, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

i hate ttc after a loss

Well, DH and I have been married since Sept. 16, 2006. In Jan. 2007, we found out we were expecting. Talk about a surprise. We really weren't trying, but we weren't preventing, either. We began planning and talking to the baby every day. We miscarried March 3, 2007, one day after what was supposed to be the first prenatal appointment.(yeah, I've been told that three months is a long time for a doctor to make you wait for a first prenatal visit, but it seems my doctor sucks)Anyway, we lost our first child to a miscarriage. We have been trying since then and have gotten no sign of pregnancy excet for one cruel 63 day cycle with 8 to 10 negative pregnancy tests taunting our dreams...

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Posted by: vernice990 on Jan 23, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Trying again!

it's always hard to overcome a lost of a child. I had a misscariage on Dec 31, 2007. And I have been mentally beating myself up asking GOD why me. And all I want is another child, and it just seems like it never is gonna happen. I am just really tired of trying over a year now. So I can relate and understand a 100%.

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Posted by: the_ice_hockey_queen on Jan 22, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Miscarriage then ttc again...

My Hubby and I started ttc in Jan 2007. We finally got pregnant in October 2007...But on November 26th we had a miscarriage of our twins. We have to wait until two periods had passed before trying again. I'm afraid it will take forever to get pregnant again, or it will end in heartbreak like it did with the twins (this was my 1st mc)...We have a 3 year old daughter so its not like we've had trouble getting a baby bump in the past. Its almost time to start ttc again and all I want is to get pregnant right off the bat...

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Posted by: Cambrey on Jan 20, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Hubby with low testosterone

I got pregnant 3 years ago this month while I was on Depo. I had just gotten divorced and was shocked. I met my now husband a year ago and we got married December 1st. We haven't been using anything since OCT and still nothing. We got his testosterone tested and it is way low so I don't know if another baby is even going to be a possibility. The thing that sucks is that since it is him with the problem there isn't a lot that can be done as far as infertility treatments. I am turning 30 this year and want 2 more, but am worried that 1 may be it. I love my son to death and am so happy to have him, but I don't feel like my family is complete.

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Posted by: cindy82 on Jan 18, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

why not now??!!

I had my first son when i was 18. I was on the pill and got a uti and the doc didnt tell me that it killed birth conrol. 9 months later my oldest son poped out. when i was 20 i ran out of pills for 3 days and got preg again. i left there father when my youngest was less than a yr old. i have a wonderfull dh now and we tried over a yr and i finaly got preg only to loose it. ( he does have kids) it seems so weird that when you dont try or need them you get prg right away, when you try it seems like forever and if you do you end up loosing it. i hate the way things work!!!lol

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Posted by: wantingababyafterdepo on Jan 17, 2008
Conception Frustrations?

Never when you want it, always when you dont :(

First off I have to say that I was one of those young girls who fell pregnant that didnt want or deserve it. It all worked out and now I have the most wonderful 3 year old son. The father and I waited to get married until about a year ago and have been trying to get pregnant again ever since. And wouldnt you imagine that now it is not happening. It frustrates me so much that it came so easily the first time(a little to easily)and now that I so badly wont another baby it just wont happen. Its seems like everyone I know is finding out that they are pregnant(one is even getting twins)...I cant even put in words how sad I am not to be able to get pregnant :(

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