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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: baby75 on Aug 7, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

waiting is so hard for bfp

why is some times when we really want something it just wont happen ive been blessed when we decided to get pregnant we got pregnant i have 3 great boys and we have been TTC for about 5 months and nothing i know its not that long but for us it is. my cycles are not regular at the moment as i am breast feeding so im putting it down to that. i hope when i wean my one year old it returns and we can get pregnant but i just hate thinking this has to be it ive ov we BD and then negative pregnancy test or period arrives its so sad.

good luck to any one else TTC hope it happens soonxxx

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Posted by: crys652 on Aug 3, 2007
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I can relate to Lebron

I can completely relate to you Lebron. Me and my husband have been trying since Aug 2005 for our third child and nothing. finally we decided to see a fertility specialist. He told us that my hormone levels were normal. He did a tubal dye study which confirmed that my tubes were open. They happened to find Endometriosis. This is scarring around my ovaries and uterus. I am scheduled for a Laparoscopy on the 17th of this month. Every test that they ran on me cost around $5,000 and the Laparoscopy surgery to remove the Endometriosis costs $1,750 which i have to pay all of these costs myself because i have no insurance but you know, I will never regret going through all of this because i will have my beautiful baby in my arms within the next year and that will pay for itself. I would suggest going to a fertility specialist. Mine has helped me alot and he gaurentees we will be pregnant within two months after surgery. I wish you the best of luck.

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Posted by: Lebron on Aug 3, 2007
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We want a 3rd why can`t we get there?

My husband and I have been married for 10 years,we have 2 boys, 9 and 5 yrs old.We thought it`s time to try for the girl.Our other 2 pregnancies we said we were going to try to get pregnant and it seemed that by just saying that it happened,that`s how quick I got pregnant,(even being on birth control I would get off the pill and next thing I know we`re pregnant). But now we have been trying since May 2007 and going about everything and nothing happens. I cry when I get my period.What`s going on? I`m only 27,perfect health,been taking my prenatals since March.What am I doing wrong?And on top of all that every where I go I see a pregnant women of all ages.I try not to question God,but sometimes I feel like i can`t help it.If I only knew why?....

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Posted by: sewhay on Aug 2, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

UTI Sucks

I was all ready to start TTC in June but then in Mid May, 3 days after i saw a new gyno, I had UTI for the very first time in my life. since i had to take anitbiotics, the urologist said to wait at least 2 months before TTC. so we did and then i had UTI again in the beginning of July and since then i've been quite afraid of "baby-dancing" even if we're not TTC right now. We've decided to wait until this Nov now. I know 5 women who are currently preggers and it makes me feel so jealous and inadequate.

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Posted by: mernzycat on Aug 1, 2007
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Why Lord?

Me and DH have been together for 9 and a half years now, and we are still madly in love with one another. In these last 9 years, we have never used protection, not once. We wasnt TTC for all that time, we where just enjoying each other and letting life run its course. Over a year ago now, we decided we might need to try to plan a family. I have bought test kits for ovulation, Checked my fluids and cervix, Took my BBT every morning religiously, Charted my cycles everyday. My heart hurts when I sit down to do this now, because it seems so hopeless. I sit down to watch television, and hear about dead babies in garbage cans, and abortions galore. I see kids and babies being neglected everyday by their own father and mother. I know we are not supposed to question God, but I cant help it. Why do people who dont or cant love kids spit them out like flies and people who can and will provide a good, stable, loving environment for a child have to go thru all this? I have prayed over this time and time again but still my heart is not satisfied.

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Posted by: Ju66UK on Jul 31, 2007
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Trying and Trying but feel too old and too stressed

My partner and I have been ttc for just over 2 1/2 yrs now, we've been together since Jan 02. We met late in our lives. I wouldn't mind so much but time is of the essence, I am 41 1/2 and he is 40. We have no children between us. We are trying to cope but with everyone around us, my sisters both have babies, my brother has two one born in Dec, his sister is in delivery with TWINS today (31 July 07), his brother had a baby a year ago. So as you can see 4 babies in 1 year makes it all the more harrowing for us. We try to be strong but inside we are weak. I have PCOS, Endometriosis and Type II Diabetes. I lost a pregnancy at 11 wks in Dec 05. I didn't even know I was pregnant! We've consulted here in UK for IVF but are struggling with the financial cost of it all. How do we cope???? How do we achieve this goal in life without it causing us so much stress? How do we put on a happy face for everyone else around us?

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