Anonymous Trying To Conceive Wish

About to turn 30, married just over a year but struggling financially. Fear family will condemn us for actively trying when we are the poorest (but most in love, committed, and sane) members of the family. I just started up a business and hubby got a new job. We've decided to stop preventing and see what happens. I hope this business succeeds so we can have a child in good conscience. :( We want to be parents so badly, but we're trying not to be selfish about it.