Alyssia's Trying To Conceive Wish

My wish has not come true, had hospital appointment - I'm ovulating which is great but now 2 more blood tests for HIV/Hep B etc, husband has to give sperm samples again and we have been referred for IVF - great news but I was hoping to avoid this as I don't think I'm strong enough to go through with this, how do I tell work I need odd days off here and there?

TTC for 4 years and back on the Clomid