Conception Frustrations II?

I know exactly what you are going through,me and my husband of 7 years have been trying for a long time to conieve and evrything we tried has failed.All i keep hearing is,"When you least expect it that's when it will happen for yall."I'm so sick of hearing that.It got so frustrating for us we quit trying.So your not the only one i've cryied myself to sleep wanting to get pregnant and can't.I'm not going to tell you what we have been hearing because i know how it feels.If it happens for us it does if it don't it just don't,take care and god bless.

hello everyone. I'm feeling really down today. My mind had convinced my body that i was pregnant so when AF arrived this morning i nearly lost it. I know i havent been TTC for very long (AF started again sep 8th after a year of waiting. last depo shot was aug '09) but it already seems like ages. one of my sisters got pregnant with twins 6 months after depo and another one of my sisters got pregnant by getting her shot 2 days late. To make matters even worse a 19 year old girl i work with just found out she's pregnant and is seriously considering abortion. It just seems like everytime i turn around someone else i know is getting pregnant unexpectedly and here I am doing everything i can to get pregnant and its just not happening for me. I am so frustrated that i just want to cry and give up.

I think the most frustrating thing for me is people have a way of trying to make you feel better, by saying "well you can always adopt" or "there are so many people that have been trying a lot longer than you"...and while those things are true, it doesn't necessarily make me feel any better at this time. What I end up feeling is guilt for feeling sad about my situation. I think its normal, at any stage of TTC to feel sad when you take the test and it's negative. I have to work on that, allowing myself to feel sad, but not wallowing in it..without feeling guilty. It's not the end of the world, but it can certainly feel like it sometimes.

Hi, I've been ttc for quite sometime now. I got on depo after I had my first child back in 06. I got my last shot in Sept of 08. I got my periods shortly after that. At first they were everywhere and then they became regular. I have been regular for a while now I just don't know why its taking me so long to conceive.

My husband and I have been TTC since June of 2007. We've gotten pregnant twice now, but unfortunately neither of them made it past a few weeks. I have PCOS, I've tried serophene and nothing, I was on Metphormin for a year and a half and all it did was make me sick and make my hair fall out. Now everyone is passed the point of telling us to stop stressing and it'll just happen, to telling us, well you can always just adopt. Like that is the most natural thing in the world. but the thing is if they had been in my shoes, they woiuldn't feel that way. Does anyone else notice it's the women who have a bunch of kids that are the biggest experts on infertility? So now we're trying a new suppliment called Estro-sense and we're crossing fingers that this one works.

alright, anyone here had any luck or problems using ovulation sticks? i picked some up for this month. But ive heard that a lot of people have trouble telling if the lines are darker or dark enough?