Conception Frustrations II?

Hello Ladies!So i stopped taking BC October 2012 after being on it for a few years to TTC. While on BC my peroids were very regular and now that im am off are getting back to normal and sort of irregular; my cycle is usually 28-34 days i think depending on my stress. It has been difficult to find exactly when I ovulate but have starting tracking my cycles on MMC and hope it helps. Last month I tried the ovulation tests and the the second line was eventually getting darker until it looked like the lines were about the same darkness and size but had no luck in concieving again, hopefully next ovulation is jan 24th-28th sometime and will try to use the ovulation tests again. Any advice for finding my day of ovulation?

I was on birth control for 10 years. I am 32 years old and married with no children. I got off birth control 6 months ago. I thought it would be easier to get pregnant, thought I would get pregnant right away. But getting pregnant is hard! My periods are irregular around 40 days. One of my cycles was 50 days! I def thought I was pregnant, but then it came late, 10 days late. It was really upsetting. Since I stopped the pill I started getting acne and gaining weight. So that gets me even more depressed. Does having irregular periods make you ovulate less?
I know I am thinking about it too much but its hard not too.
Any advice would be nice.

I have a five year old, and my husband and I have been trying to conceive a second child for over two years. The first time around it took us about 7 months so I figured that it would be around the same time for us again. Well, apparently not! What is frustrating is that my cycle is so unpredictable so we have to use fertility test kits. We try all the time and it is beginning to wear on me. I have cried many a time when my period comes. I think my body is playing wicked tricks on me now too because sometimes I feel like I've conceived, I will get the breast tenderness, feel tired a lot and nausea and then nope, still no luck. So rather than drive myself mad I am going to try to take a step back and ignore those persons around me who are conceiving left, right and center. It can be hard, I have been there and I know how frustrating it can be. It helps to know that there are other people who understand exactly what I'm going through. Hope you guys get your heart's desires soon. :-)

I've been trying for almost 2 yrs now.I just don't understand what we are doing wrong? Lol I didn't think it would be this hard to get prego... jokes on me. Ill be 31 soon and I don't know how long I really wanna keep trying honestly.I get so sad when I get my period, sometimes it feels like why do I even get one it just doesn't make sense to me. All my friends and family have and/or having babies. I try to be so happy for them and I am to a point but I'm trully saddened on the inside.I think I just need to let go ... reconsider my options because I'm ok with adoption.

so i am sitting in my room reading the posts and tears are streaming down my face. Will be 32 this month , have bben ttc for 2 years and honestlyh believe that depression is setting in. So i work 2 jobs and go to calsses to obtain my degree. My method is to keep busy so as not to think about it. However everytime my period comes, I want to scream. BTW I have been tracking my cycle for 4 years so tried my best to have sex during ovulation and all that. My doc says I have PS Ovaries , but that I am not infertile. Soooo jus needed to let that out.
Thx for listening

Don't feel bad!!! Ladies , my husband & I have been married for 11 yrs , we have been trying four yrs to conceive without any luck . My periods are regular , I do not think that I am the problem , simply because I have an 11 yr old son from a previous relationship . To say the least Im getting incredibly frustrated , every single month we try & every single month Im heart broken .. :(