Conception Frustrations?

My husband and I have been ttc for 6 months now and I get so frustrated when another person tells me they are pregnant....I have 6 out of 10 girls I work with pregnant my 2 sister-in-laws and my bestfriend...I mean if its in the water I must be drinking the bad stuff LOL I just ask myself everyday is there a reason I am not pregnant...maybe I am not supposed to have kids?....then I remind myself that everything comes in time so keep your fingers crossed this month ladies cuz its the big O day today :)

i know exactly how you feel my both my sister in laws are pregnant. one of which just recently got the news. the other is having hers next month. my husband and i have been trying for seven months and i too feel defeated. just hang in there it will happen soon.

My husband and I have been trying to conceive for the past 3 months... It is so frustrating. We both have expressed to each other that we want to have a baby. I only wish it would come sooner. Every month since we have statred trying and I get my period. It like defeat knocking on my door. I only pray that it happens soon.

I hear what everyone is saying on here. All us girls worry so much about getting pregnant by accident, take bc religiously and worry...then we go off it and think I'll get pregnant right away. My husband and I have not been trying very long, but we are the last ones in the family to get pregnant...everyone I know got pregnant right after going off the pill (sometimes within a week!). I just feel like everyone is watching us and waiting. I wish we hadn't told everyone we were trying. I put enough pressure on myself. It is hard to relax and just let it happen when I do want a baby so badly. All I can do is pray I suppose. One of my good friends is pregnant with her first now, and my cousin just had a new baby. So we'll cross our fingers...maybe I won't get a visit from AF on Monday...

having a miscarriage makes it even harder, having the happiness then it being taken away. then fighting to get it back is frustrating

After 27 months of trying to conceive a child, we still are not pregnant. Some may think that we (especially me) may be quite bitter by this point. Although I will admit that I have hit some pretty low lows in the last 27 months, the last three months have been wonderful. You see, I finally realized that I am not in control but God is in control. He knows the perfect time for us, I don't. I have put my full faith and trust in Him and now I have complete peace that someday, we will have a child.

My advice to those who are feeling discouraged, look to Jesus and He will help you. He is our greatest source of love and strength. I'll be praying for all of you in your TTC adventures. God bless you all!