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Conception Frustrations?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: Mommynina on Jun 26, 2007
Conception Frustrations?

stress out

Hi i am mommynina my husband and I all ready have two kids,but we are

trying for another and it seems as though everyone is pregnant but us. we have been trying for so long and i get upset that it has not happened,yet my husband keeps saying don't worry but how can i not worry. I feel like maybe its me or like it may never happen again or I say to myself be happy with just the two you have,and don't get me wrong i love those two little people more than life it self but .we want a big family because me and my husband are only we felt like two was not enough we really want four kid, but it is taking so long and seems like we may never get there. sometimes i want to give up when another month goes by and i get my peorid i just want to cry .

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Posted by: mama2b21 on Jun 26, 2007
Conception Frustrations?


My frusteration on conception is my body, it seems like I am never going to get pregnant. We have been trying to get pregnant for almost a year now, and it seems that everyone else who isn't trying is getting pregnant and he and I are still trying! Don't get me wrong we both enjoy trying...(hehehe)...however its hard to see people in our community that do not want or take care of the children they have and they are getting pregnant.

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Posted by: SOGGYBOURBON on Jun 26, 2007
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Second Time Lucky

well.. This is only the second month we have tried to get pregnant, and i'm already on egde and excited all the time!! can't stop thinking about things and planning bits and pieces!! but i must stop and take stock and calm down! just take every day at a time.

i feel for every one of you that has been trying at lot longer then us without result! and start to realise maybe its not as easy as it seems!

i did the unthinkable thing when i was very young (far too young) and had an abortion then a year ago i had a miscarriage and now Becoming THE BIG P seems impossible in my eyes! maybe im beating myself up for bad things ive done!

but now im settled down, happy and stable i feel the time has come!

I've just ovulated and we did the business :P all at the correct time (its very technical!) :) so fingers crossed but now its just a waiting game! can't wait until i can post and say I'M PREGNANT! but i keep having to bring myself down to earth and rememeber it might not happen this month! , c'est la vie!

Much Love x

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Posted by: sararoo on Jun 26, 2007
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DAY 44 and Still a BFN!

We have been ttc for 4 months since i have stopped taking my b/c(ortho-evra) in February. It has been so frustrating and we havent even been trying that long. Everytime my AF was just a little late visiting i started to think that i may be pregnant only to start hours after taking a hpt. Now i am on day 44 of my monthly cycle with no period and all of my tests are coming up negative. I took an ept and i couldnt tell if it was trying to make a plus sign. Im still crazy. But hopefully i will go to the doctor soon. I just am so emotional lately with my s/o family always asking me when they're going to have a grand baby I dont want to dissappoint.

Once i was going to sneak out to get an hpt and the whole family found out during a bbq, so when i returned they were all waiting in the living room for me to go take it immediately. It was so embarrasing because I knew it would be a BFN. So hopefully after this week I will know for sure, it has been great to read all of your posts though. It makes me feel like im not so crazy and not so alone.

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Posted by: dyosa on Jun 25, 2007
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me and my husband were trying for a baby for than a year now and still no results...I've been to my doctor to check if everything is okay with me and that I don't have health or reproductive problems. All test results turned okay, the doctor said I'm very fertile and there's no way I can't get pregnant. I'm currently in my 2ww, I'm on my 9dpo, and experiencing mild cramps on the right side, I feel dizzy also sometimes and my right legs is also cramping. I'm easily irritated with even little things. Are these symptoms?well...I'm hoping.

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Posted by: reeds_will on Jun 24, 2007
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Is third time the Charm?

Conception...Indeed, in there somewhere must also be a hidden misception, that when you want to concieve, it just doesn't turn out like you plan. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant, our first attempt, was well the "Surprize, you're pregnant" annoucement. Unfortunitly, I miscarried at week 7. And a few months later, we decided to try again, and concieved, but at the 11 week mark, I miscarried again. It was tramatic enough the first time. Now after taking some more time to recover, we are attempting for a third time, with the help of fertility drugs, since I have seem to have stopped ovulating. My doctor says everything with me looks normal, and my husband also recieved a clean bill of health. So we will try again. And maybe the third time really will be the charm. I pray that in 10 or so months that I'll be looking down at my first beautiful baby. Untill then, we shall enjoy the practice. Don't give up, dont get discouraged. Its easy to do both, but think of what you could be giving up on. If you've read this, know that you are not alone, keep believing and send a pray our way, as ours will be with you.

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