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Conception Frustrations II?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: jbm333 on Jul 14, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

frustrations and everyone seems to be pregnant but

trying to conceive and it's taking much longer than I expected. We BD every other day and track ovulation, but has not worked yet. We are both young and healthy. I think the most thing that adds to our frustrations is that everyone we know seems to have kids or is already pregnant! Everywhere we look babies, babies, babies, makes it so much harder! Does anyone have any suggestions to help with the frustration??? Also, would you guys recommend Vitex even when i have regualr periods??

Best Wishes!!!

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Posted by: EQ on Jul 14, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

Crushed

I been trying now for 5 1/2 mos and nothing! I am 1 day late right now and tested this morning. However, it was faint 2 lines while the test was working through, but after the 3 mins wait it was just 1 line. I got excited for like 1 min and now feel crushed!

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Posted by: 2treefrogs on Jun 28, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

vitex-chasteberry (TTC)

Any one have any thoughts on this? I think I will try the drops this time. Tryin for 2yrs and 10 months but whos counting, LOL. I know it will work. It has to. Please pray for me. baby dust to all.

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Posted by: amydawn on Jun 27, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

TTC Frustrations a year in

It is now a year TTC. I thought it would be so easy but was I ever mistaken. I had normal periods until Jan. 2010 and for three months my AF was lasting 16-18 days with heavy flow. Went to the ER found out it was stress and that I had fibroids. So I had laproscopic-exploritory surgery in April. Fibroid is the size of a baseball, not inside my uterus but on top of it causing a cave-in efect. Dr says I am ovulating and everything looks great but when I getpregnant I will have trouble with implantation and will it will be a high risk pregnancy for the 1st trimester. This was in April, he said go home TTC for 3 months if not pregnant by then come see me. I am now on month 3 of TTC. My husband is discouraged by all the insane planning I do and wants it to "just happen". Well me too but obviously that is not happening for us. I'm sick of hearing of others getting pregnant and thinking every month I am. People tell me not to think about it and it will happen. How do I do that?? My biggest complaint is my hubby not being on the same page as me with ovulation, its like I tell him these are the days we must BD and he gets mad he doesnt like to be on a schedule. So last month we did it his way I said nothing about TTC and guess what AF came today so I told him next month its my way all the way!

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Posted by: Dizzie on Jun 26, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

I think I angered the pregnancy goddess

Ok all, I am getting very frustrated and starting to think that I was not supposed to have babies (or even one). I am 35 and up until I met my husband I was not fond of being around children for extended periods of time and until my 3rd year being married, I never wanted to have a baby. Before I met my husband I was too busy with my career and social life to slow down for a kid. Funny thing is, I am actually ready to have a baby, and strangely something that I spent so much money trying to stop is so hard to start. Man, if I knew that having a baby was so hard, I would not have wasted my money on birth control.

I have been actively trying for the last 6 months, I have tracked my cycle for the last 4 years (initially trying to avoid the days I was ovulating, now trying to be there), and started chlomid 3 months ago. I have done tests, ultrasounds, and they all say that nothing is wrong with me.

I am going through so many emotions right now, frustration, sadness, confusion. What is wrong with me, have I angered the pregnancy goddess and cursed to wonder??? Should I give up...or do whatever it takes???

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Posted by: thinkpink on Jun 22, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

Whats going on here?

So Its now been 3 months of TTC but nothing yet.Just a little back round story about me I had a myomectomy(like a c-sectiontype surgery) in Nov 2009 to have a large fibroid removed from my uterus. luckly the OBGYN said it was in a good spot and there was not too much scar tissue when it was removed because it did not penetrate the inside on my uterus, anyway I was told to wai6 months before trying to conceice and we did,so now we have been trying for 3 months and nothing yet. So for the past 3 months I have been spotting for like 3-4 days like a bown color and some CM which at first i thought it was implantation bleeding but then AF shows up every time. this month was no exception she showed up again full force today after I had been spotting for 4 days . The first time this happened I went to the OBGYN and she said it could have been because I had just travelled by airplane and it could have been something to do with the pressure up there so a don't know anymore.

anyone have any ideas on what this could be. I mean they were just in there.

Thanx

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