past the year mark

i stoped taking the pill in sept. of 2005 i can't say that we try every month but probally 10 months of the year and still nothing i have been traking everything and it all seems to be normal and i also went to the dr. in 05 and she said all was in tack. my sister inlaw didn't even have a boyfrind and married 3weeks before i did in sept.of 05 and her husband was gone alot for millitary and they already have a child that is about to turn 1 and she is very vocal about now trying for another although she just lost one a few months back. and me i can't even seem to get a late cycle. i am sick and tired of every one asking if i plan to have kids. i am not one to tell my friends or even family that i have been trying i just keep saying if it happends it happends. now i am a month away from turning 33 and if i can't do it by the time i'm 35 i don't know if i'll ever be able to keep up with a child. just started a new month for myself last sat. so i guess its time to hit the sac.again.