Conception Frustrations?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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not alone

Posted by: kira on Wed Aug 8, 2007

I know where you ladies are coming from. My husband and i have been married a little over 3 years. I went off Birth control last May. we wern't using any birth control, because we figured that we would have trouble concieving when we were ready to have children. (i have numerous "girl problems") needless to say, we were surprised in November and found out I was pregnant! We were beside ourselves with excitement and our parents and family was as well. i immediately started having different health problems and it seemed like one weird thing after another was happening to me... (i got the shingles, kidney stones, tendonitis, cellulitis...then i started spotting. the doctors all told me i was fine and had nothing to worry about...but when i was almost 13 weeks along, i had an obgyn visit and a doctor that i had never spoken to before looked at my chart and started questioning everything the previoius doctors had told me... he sent me for an emergency ultrasound, and 2 days before christmas we found out that we had lost the baby.
i underwent an emergency D&E on new years day, and hemorrhaged very severly...
ever since, my periods have been really irregular and weird... i am using a fertility monitor, checking my cervix and monitoring my days... and it has been 8 months now and nothing... this last month was the worst, because my little one should be 2 weeks old now... soo sad...
it is helpful to know that i am not the only one in the world going through this! and you are all in my thoughts and prayers...
thanks for letting me vent

-Kira

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