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You, TTC, and Your Partner
Your Trying to Conceive partner is, of course, there physically. Is he also emotionally supportive, especially if you get a BFN when you hoped this would be the month? Is he open to on-going TTC related talk when you want/need it?

Occasionally Clueless Partner

Posted by: StrikeMePink on Fri Aug 31, 2007
Yes, I would say he is there Physically, but emotionally, not much. He is not a very emotional person, so displaying emotions is something he is just not big on. With each passing month, and failed attempt, he does comfort me and says "We'll just keep trying" and sometimes he tries to make me laugh about it. When I talk to him about my concerns, he kinda listens, but has adopted the whole "It will happen when it happens" attitude. In his mind, he is not really "Trying". He just feels, if we make love and we get pregnant, that is all the better, but he isn't as involved in the madness that I go through every month with charting, fertility monitoring, taking meds, taking temps, checking cervial position and fluid, etc, etc, etc. I even asked him to keep track of my monthly cycle if he was seriously trying to have a baby right now. Maybe once we move, his attitude will change.
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