You, TTC, and Your Partner
Your Trying to Conceive partner is, of course, there physically. Is he also emotionally supportive, especially if you get a BFN when you hoped this would be the month? Is he open to on-going TTC related talk when you want/need it?

To have, and To have Lost. Will I ever have it again?

Posted by: mamabaer on Wed Sep 5, 2007

I was 3 months pregnant when welost our baby. My husband was standing beside me, holding my hand when the doctor was doing the ultrasound, and we saw that our baby's little heart was not flickering any more. We balled together in that lonely, cold doctor's office..just waiting for a miracle...waiting to hear the doctor say that he found the heart beat. But there was nothing, only a dead, overwhelmingly sad silence. My husband Travis held me everytime I balled for our baby. I would walk thru the house and just start crying, and no matter what he was doing, he would stop and just embrace me..comforting me with kind, sweet encouraging words. It has been 11 months since we lost our baby, and we still are not pregnant again. But My Travis just tells me that "It will happen when the time is right, we must wait in line for a soul again." Even though I want it NOW, right now might not be the right time according to God?? Who knows..but I do know that I have a wonderful man who is waiting very patiently with me, every step of the way. And for that, I so very thankful.

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