30 or 35 seems young!

I realise it must be frustrating not to get pregnant again, and discovering that conception after 35 is harder. I just turned 40 (seems young to me!) I was remarried at 37 in 2004 after a 14 year childless marriage (sort of by choice, but it's a long story). My husband is away a great deal and we have been TTC for nearly 3 years now. I finally tried clomid to improve my ovulatory function which seems to have worked (no ultrasounds, but periods seem better) but after 4 cycles I just got my period again today. Ugh! I'm trying not to get frustrated, but it's difficult. I was advised by my spiritual guide that all the trials and tribulations I've been through will help me understand and help other women when I finally suceed in conceiving and bringing the pregnancy to term. So, I would say, don't get frustrated, this is yet life experience from which to grow.... :) We are also going through the adoption process, and will have a family one way or another. Good luck and happiness to all.