You, TTC, and Your Partner
Your Trying to Conceive partner is, of course, there physically. Is he also emotionally supportive, especially if you get a BFN when you hoped this would be the month? Is he open to on-going TTC related talk when you want/need it?

Husband is so excited, Im having Doubts

Posted by: kizzo on Wed Nov 14, 2007

My Husband and I have been married for about a year and a half. I did not want kids right away due to the fact that I just wanted "US" time for the first year or so of our marriage. He has wanted kids since the day we got married. We are both only 22, getting our careers started, thinking of buying a home and getting financially settled. We have been trying now for the past 6 months and its seems like it will never happen. Every month I have been quick to jump the gun and take 3-4 pregnancy tests within a weeks time. And every 29 days my period comes around. It has now been 35 days and I am terrified to take a pregnancy test. My husband came home from work last night with a bag full of 5 different pregnancy tests, but I was too scared to take them. I have all the support in the world from the husband and yet Im terrified to become a mother right now. I know my husband and I will make great parents..but is this the way I should be feeling? I am currently 6 days late, and my husband is jumping for joy and Im just thinking that I wanted more time with my husband before we jumped into have a family. Is this selfish?

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