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Conception Frustrations?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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The frustration continues.....

Posted by: Flowe on Mon Feb 4, 2008
My DH and I have been TTCing for 16 months now. Im really fed up as I dont know what to do. It has become a really big issue for us as we have taken time away from each other to sort things out. We have almost been apart from each other for a month now and I am due to go back hom quite soon. The pressure TTC has put a very bid strain on us and our marriage tremendously. I know if it is meant for us to have a baby we will. We both really want to have a baby. We have been together 11 yrs and married almost 2yrs. No babies yet. I was on birth control for about 8 yrs.

For the last 7 months I have had mid cycle spotting leading all the way to AF. Sometimes the spotting can be 2 weeks long before AF shows. I have now been referred to a fertility specialist and gynecologist. I guess this does give me some hope but I just dont have any hope at all anymore. I try to stay away from baby programs or from people I see who are pregnant and/or having smal infants because it hurts to much. I think this has lead to depression on my part. Have been treated in the past for it but when you are trying to get pregnant anti-depressants aren't good for babies. I guess all I can do is keep praying that we will have our own little bundle of joy and try to relax until we have our doc's appt.
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