You, TTC, and Your Partner
Your Trying to Conceive partner is, of course, there physically. Is he also emotionally supportive, especially if you get a BFN when you hoped this would be the month? Is he open to on-going TTC related talk when you want/need it?

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Posted by: momwantabe on Fri Mar 7, 2008

well my boyfriend a 43yo man with kids from a past marriage, just informed me he doesn't want kids. he didn't want to get married again either but I can deal with that. I don't know if I can deal with not having my own kids. The sad thing is I have been raising his kids for over five years now (I was his live in nanny during his big D I know, dumb to get involved) but I am and now we are all attached so leaving is not as easy as everyone tells me it is. But I don't know if I can stay? I'm 30 and have a career and money I'm happy and very ready to have a kid. plus I've been a Doula and assist midwife since I was 19 I've happily helped all my single mom friends around me rise their kids now I want mine own. My boyfriend makes me feel like I'm being silly and that have kids is not that big of a deal. but he love his kids? I don't know what to do. everyone says just leave but its not that easy you know

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