Alyssa Jade

My boyfriend (now fiance') and I could only agree on two names Alyssa Jade for a girl and Tristan (no middle name picked) for a boy. We talked about it during my third month and decided to go with those names and we'd figure out a middle name for Tristan during the pregnancy. On my 5 month check-up they couldn't tell the sex. He thought I was carrying a boy, and I thought I was carrying a girl. A week and a half later I went into preterm labor and miscarried. We found out then I had been carrying a little girl, who we gave the name Alyssa Jade. Some people give us grief because it was the only name we could agree on, and we should have "saved" it for another child. Sorry, our daughter deserves a name, and even though she isn't physically with us, she's still with us now.
I'm currently pregnant now, but not getting my hopes up because I'm on the HIGH risk category now. If it's a little girl, we're going to have to try to find another girls name to agree on. But not for one second do I regret calling our daughter after the ONLY girl name we could agree on.