Conception Frustrations?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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I just don't understand!

Posted by: Sizzlintaz on Fri Aug 8, 2008

My hubby and I have been TTC for over a year now. A few months ago, we got a + preg test, and were totally thrilled, only to have our hopes crushed a few weeks later. "Spontaneous abortion", they called it. Those words ripped my heart apart. To me, abortion has always meant "getting rid of a problem or unwanted item." This child, to me, was neither of those. Why is it still so hard to move on?
We decided to pick up where we left off, and hope each month for that + test. Each month, AF decides to visit and our hopes get crushed again. Is it worth it to keep trying?
Dr.'s dk why the miscarriage happened, and don't want to start fertility treatments yet because we're both still young. My heart yearns to hold my baby. Does the pain ever stop? Will we ever be able to concieve?

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