we're just trying to get there...

my husband and i have been together for 5yrs and just got married in march..for the past few years we have been trying to conceive and nothing not even a symptom of the first. we just don't know what to do anymore..we've tried going to get check ups and different meds to help,we even went as far as changing our diets and still nothing. i dont know in a way it seems as if he has given up not to mention my period that has a mind of its own..it comes on when it wants to and goes off when it wants to, don't worry i've tried birth control and that doesn't even do the trick,so the question of the day is what to do and what to do..lol? when im ready to talk about it(ttc) he is all ears and ready to talk...so now im thinking more on adoption but he says no. so i guess from we continue to try right ladies because we are all trying to get there?.....