I don't know what he wants...!

Im getting so frustrated with my husband! He told me for a long time that he didn't think we should try to have kids for a while even though he knew that I really wanted to. I had been in and out of hospitals and doctors offices before we got married and was eventually diagnosed with Endo and PID. My obgyn tells me that there is a chance I may not be able to conceive, that is the news that makes your maternal clock tick louder and louder. He still didn't think we should try too hard, So for about 2 years we stopped using protection and said if it happens it happens, but there was no big effort put into TTC. We finally moved to a new city and both of us have great jobs that we love! Then he tells me he thinks it's a good time to try! So after all the reading and charting I've done, I pinpoint the perfect time for TTC and he says he wants to finally try to make this happen. So I remind him that we have to do this the right way, as in we need to do the baby dance on the days im most fertile! I haven't said much to him about it other than that part, and he freaks out and pushes me out emotionally! He says that he thinks I'm baby crazy, but I haven't said much about it at all! I don't think Im baby crazy, i just want him to know that it is really important to plan it out and do this the right way, especially if our chances are already reduced!

He just keeps getting my hopes up that we are going to put the effort into TTC and then he gets all weird! I don't know what to do, its driving me crazy! I don't know if he's getting cold feet about having a baby or if its something to do with our relationship?