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Conception Frustrations?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Frustrated!

Posted by: Falcon on Wed Feb 18, 2009
My husband and I have been TTC for over two years now. We have both had fertility tests and we are both absolutley fine but I am so confused about how to feel, I feel like I am living a double life. Half of me is positive and still enjoying life and half of me is jealous and angry. I get so sick of having to revel in everyone elses joy and hearing others say how miserable they are as they have been trying for 6 months for their second or third child!! I wish! I wish I had at least one baby, I wish I had experienced that joy even once. In my opinion those people are ungrateful, selfish and clueless. Nobody I know seems to understand and I don't want my relationship to suffer so I tend to keep all my feelings to myself. I put on a smile and when people say "do you not want children?" I say casually "yeah one day". I want to scream and shout and say it's not fair. As negative as it sounds I really do try to stay focused and am trying everything I can to stay healthy and happy, but does anyone else out there feel half as frustrated as me?? xx
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