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Conception Frustrations?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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I Wish I Could....

Posted by: Tina1978 on Tue May 5, 2009
Hi to other frustrated TTC women! I'm 30, my DH is 29. We've been married for over 1 1/2 years now, TTC for 13 cycles' length (since February 2008). So far, no luck. I've been tested with basic blood tests--no PCOS, hormonal imbalances, thyroid problems. He hasn't been tested yet, and we're reluctant to do it (due to various circumstances I won't explain at present). My cycles are not regular; they haven't been ever since we started TTC. I used to be regular to the hour; now it fluctuates from 28-39 days. So many other women get pregnant just thinking about babies, but my DH and I want one so badly and can't. We're crushed! We may just give up TTC eventually, we're so frustrated. What are you supposed to do when you want something so badly and can't have it? I just don't know. :( I've honestly considered every explanation--physical, stress, emotional, spiritual--and I have no idea why we can't get pregnant--even when we're trying every other day. Not sure what to do but give up. Anybody else this frustrated?
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