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Conception Frustrations?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Scared for my First Appt. HELP!

Posted by: tb0688 on Fri Jun 26, 2009
I am going to my first appointment ever on Tuesday. I am SO nervous about getting things started. I am only 20 years old and fear that my family may be judgmental of my longing to be a mother. I am really nervous about my appointment for the same reason, I don't want the doctor to think I am being irresponsible. My partner & I have been together for 2 years without any success in becoming pregnant. If anything, I just want a period and to ovulate, it would put my mind at ease just to KNOW that if I want a child I can make it happen when I am ready. I feel like less of a woman since my period comes and goes when it pleases, I wish I could be like everyone else and determine when I am ready to be a parent, rather than go ask the dr. permission to make it possible.. I don't want her to look at me as crazy since I am concerned about these things at only 20. I just know in my heart if I don't start now that it will be YEARS before I can conceive, it may even still be years in starting now. I am just extremely nervous without knowing what the problem is. To sum up my issues, my period is extremely irregular, it comes and goes, ill get it then it wont come back for like 3 months --- or as long at 9, 10 months and so on. I don't even think that I can ovulate because if I did I am almost sure that I would have like...239842937 kids by now!!!
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