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TTC when BD doesn't happen so often.....
Posted by:
EJTTC
on Sat Nov 28, 2009
Hmmm.... Very personal this but I would like to know if anyone else has been thru or is going thru this.
My partner & I have been 2gether 6 1/2 yrs. We are on 2nd month TTC.
We have a gd sx life but, after 6 1/2 yrs 2gether, we don't BD as much as we used to!
1st cycle of TTC we found it really difficult to BD a lot, as we're just not used to it! 1st cycle we BD x 3 over fertile period but I think the mistake we made was doing it every day - my partner especially was like "what, again?"
Now on cycle 2 we're both entering a busy period workwise & when I have my fertile time we're both prob gonna be exhausted. Not so bad for me, but for my partner it's obviously creates physical difficulties :0(
Don't wanna get too disheartened but feel it'll never happen if we can't do it every other day during fertile period :0(
I reckon the best we'll be able to manage is days 12, 14 & 16. I ovulate day 15/16.
Given that we may only get 1 shot this month (if my partner's just too worn out!) which day would other ladies TTC aim for???!!!
Any help much appreciated!
EJTTC
My partner & I have been 2gether 6 1/2 yrs. We are on 2nd month TTC.
We have a gd sx life but, after 6 1/2 yrs 2gether, we don't BD as much as we used to!
1st cycle of TTC we found it really difficult to BD a lot, as we're just not used to it! 1st cycle we BD x 3 over fertile period but I think the mistake we made was doing it every day - my partner especially was like "what, again?"
Now on cycle 2 we're both entering a busy period workwise & when I have my fertile time we're both prob gonna be exhausted. Not so bad for me, but for my partner it's obviously creates physical difficulties :0(
Don't wanna get too disheartened but feel it'll never happen if we can't do it every other day during fertile period :0(
I reckon the best we'll be able to manage is days 12, 14 & 16. I ovulate day 15/16.
Given that we may only get 1 shot this month (if my partner's just too worn out!) which day would other ladies TTC aim for???!!!
Any help much appreciated!
EJTTC
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