Conception Frustrations II?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?
Frustrated and seeking more patience
on Thu Feb 4, 2010
So my husband and I never really saw eye to eye when dealing with ttc. I was ready and rearing to go 1 1/2 years ago and he wanted to wait until 2011-2012 to start! Men dont understand how long it could take to even concieve! Well recently he had a drastic change of heart(had to be a miracle from God! haha) and we started about 2 months ago. He wants to be non-chalant about it and I'm now all into tracking my cycles and every little "symptom" is my moment to become obsessed. Im frustrated for many a reasons and I just want to vent. For one my period is confusing and irregular, Im not even sure how long my cycle length truly is and I dont want to miss that key window of ovulation! 2nd I have had such interesting experiences this cycle different from my past cycles. Ive tested on sunday afternoon and of course, a neg. Not sure if its all in my head or if I should waste another test before I miss my feb period or wait? and my final silly fuel for venting is my dear and darling cousin just got married 7 months ago, love her so much. She has always stated no ttc until 2011-2012 (her and my husband should be together! ha) and I'd be on my 2nd by the time she starts. Well of course shes 2 months along now and I must do my best to seem so happy for her an be intersted and involved in all the pregnacy and mommy to be convos my fellow mommy cousins/fiends have and her all about her symptoms and her "I cant believe this is happening, so not planned" shpeel. Ugh what a frustrating time it is ttc. I'll tell ya patience is a true virtue through this whole process!
I wish it would just happen once you actually try but of course life is never that simple.
Well, Wish me luck!
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