Just got 2 BFPs! When to tell everyone?

I'm pregnant! I'm amazed. We'd only been trying for 4 months. This cycle I'd had a horrid chest infection so was in bed on and off for a couple of weeks, so even though we'd BDed before that, i thought my chances were low.

I've been having cramping but no AF, so this morning I did test and it was positive!

Couldn't believe it.

Went out and bought another test.

ALSO POSITIVE!

I've just told my partner. He doesn't want to tell anyone until I'm at least 8 weeks. I'm bursting to tell, cos my partner's reaction wasn't jumping up and down joy - more like silent acceptance. Guess I want someone I can jump up and down with!

Should I keep mum (LOL) or sneakily tell a close friend or my mum just to share my excitement?

Don't want to betray my partner. I know so much can go wrong in first 12 weeks. His view is if we tell people and then I miscarry we'll then have to tell them all that, which would be horrible I agree.

Any words of wisdom ladies?

EJ-no longer TTC!