TTC Seems Like Forever Now

Hi Ladies: I find so much encouragement and strength when reading the posts of others that are experiencing similar issues as myself. I have been with my husband for 15 years now and married to him for 5 of the 15 years. We have been actively trying to conceive officially for almost a year now to no avail. We haven't lost hope but it seems like it's never going to happen. I have not taken BCP since 1999. We stopped using condoms within a year of dating and have been free styling ever since. I have never had any oopsies almost or anythings which for yers now has scared me. He has gone to the doctor and gotten a sperm count that came back just fine. I went to my GYn and had some tests done and everything came back fine too. I have been tracking my temperature and fluids now for a year and a half. We have been following my cycle and fertility chart religiously and still nothing.

It scares me to death knowing that I have been having unprotected sex with my husband for 14 years now and have never gotten pregnant. Has anyone ever been in this situation before? You would think that an accident is bound to happen at some point right. it is even more dissappointing now that we are really trying. The doctor wants to give me fertility drugs but that's too risky and expensive for his and my tastes. Could someone please give me some other more tangible resources of remedies that may boost my chances of conception? I am 32 years old and I don't have any children and my husband has two sons prior to our relationship that I have assisted him in raising. We are both ready for our little girl now. I am grateful for any assistance provided. Thanks so much in advance I appreciate you!!