my storey

Having read a few views i though i would share my experience so people can see there is always someone worse off!! i have been trying for over 3 yrs. i went via the local NHS for various checks including tube viability op. i actually fell pregnant unbeknown to me and was around 8-10 weeks when the bleeding started and lasted for 8 wks- a miscarriage. i went to a follow up appointment at the fertility clinic and told them about the miscarriage and was told 'well you aren't infertile so we won't need to see you again'. i am now 40 and still not pregnant. add to that my husband has a contract of work where he is away every other month halving our chances. i am trying not to get obsessed but my body clock is ticking away. in the time i have been trying my brother's wife has had 2 kids - just to rub salt in the wound!