Really stressing out!

Hi everyone

This is my first post on this site.. it's reassuring reading other people's comments but nevertheless I'm quite stressed out.

I'm 26 now - I was on the pill for about 1yr 8months after I got married. Prior to that I used to have a period roughly every 35 days so regular in my own way. I also used to have sore boobs, feel a bit down and get a bit spot on my chin the week before my period was due!

I came off the pill in June last year as I knew it would take some time to get back to normal and that I should have a few cycles before we start TTC. I had period exactly 28 days (17th July) after I stopped the pill and then the next one came about 35 days later (21st Aug at which point I thought boy that was quick, I've gotten back to normal already). Then I didn't have one until 4th October (44 days later). After that I had no real periods, spotting on 16th Nov then again on 23rd Nov for a week. Then spotting on 11th Dec for a week and 17th Jan for a week. In the meantime I had been using OPKs which always told me I wasn't ovulating. So I saw the doctor who ran blood tests and told me everything looked normal except for my progesterone which was a bit high. I also never had any of the previous PMS symptoms I used to get prior to the pill.

After this I spoke to my homeopath about it ( I had been seeing her for my allergies and asthma) and she gave me a remedy to take. I took this on 10th Feb and ovulated later that day and started my period on 13th Feb.

Since this I have had nothing and I am now on CD54. It has been 13 days since my husband and I last 'tried' but apart from headaches I have had no symptoms or signs of my period coming nor of feeling pregnant. I have taken a couple of HPT and they have been negative. I don't really know when the right time to take them is as my periods have not been regular but this has been the longest I have gone without some sort of bleeding since being off the pill.