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Conception Frustrations II?
If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?
2years TTC :(
Posted by:
sbl
on Thu Jul 21, 2011
Hi all,
I'm new to this never posted in any ttc forum before as We were kind of in denial about how long its taking us to get BFP!!(oh i cannot wait for that day)
So myself(24)and my husband(29) have been together 5 years and married 1 year, we've been trying for 2 years now with absolutely no joy, only extreme dissapointment and sadness when dreaded AF arrives, i suffer from extremely painful AF and always have done :( Every month i think i am and i imagine i have symptoms which is so upsetting. also i have quite a long cycle at 34 days.
At 15 i was diagnosed with having a misshapen fallopian tube and i was told i may have a little bother getting pregnant but alas when i was 17 i got pregnant (no trying necessary at all might i add) which unfortunately ended in mc.
Why this time can i not get pregnant??? when it took so little for me conceive at 17. My self and my husband are so upset and extremely stressed out about it.
As I am quite young my GP has told me to wait a little while longer as i would not be priority for fertility docs here in Ireland. This is extremely frustrating and I feel as if i'm been fobbed off all the time.
So basically i would love to know what you guys think and maybe help me feel like i'm not totally alone.
Also does anyone else out there find it extremely annoying when people say " it'll happen when you stop trying" or " it'll happen when the time is right" if I hear that one more time...
thanks all
xxxxx
I'm new to this never posted in any ttc forum before as We were kind of in denial about how long its taking us to get BFP!!(oh i cannot wait for that day)
So myself(24)and my husband(29) have been together 5 years and married 1 year, we've been trying for 2 years now with absolutely no joy, only extreme dissapointment and sadness when dreaded AF arrives, i suffer from extremely painful AF and always have done :( Every month i think i am and i imagine i have symptoms which is so upsetting. also i have quite a long cycle at 34 days.
At 15 i was diagnosed with having a misshapen fallopian tube and i was told i may have a little bother getting pregnant but alas when i was 17 i got pregnant (no trying necessary at all might i add) which unfortunately ended in mc.
Why this time can i not get pregnant??? when it took so little for me conceive at 17. My self and my husband are so upset and extremely stressed out about it.
As I am quite young my GP has told me to wait a little while longer as i would not be priority for fertility docs here in Ireland. This is extremely frustrating and I feel as if i'm been fobbed off all the time.
So basically i would love to know what you guys think and maybe help me feel like i'm not totally alone.
Also does anyone else out there find it extremely annoying when people say " it'll happen when you stop trying" or " it'll happen when the time is right" if I hear that one more time...
thanks all
xxxxx
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