Picking baby names

When I was pregnant with Gwen, I was watching a soap opera at the time. There was a character named Gwen. I dont know why, but it just stuck with me. Plus, I have never met a Gwen, so it was unique for the family and not a common name in our area either. I was probably 6 to 7 months when it was final. Then when I was pregnant with Erin, some women at my grandma's bank that she worked with were throwing around baby name ideas. And this woman named Sue, who's daughter is about the same age as Gwen, said that she liked the name Erin. And for some reason out of all the name suggestions that one just stood out. We had a difficult time, cause my husband loved the name Avery. And I loved the name Kate for a middle name. Needless to say we decided on Erin Avery. We decided that before I gave birth to her. I don't think it really matters when you pick a name and when it's appropriate to start calling the baby that. It's your pregnancy and your baby, do what you want.