Trying for #2

Hi I'm new to Cycleviews
I'll try to sum up my story quickly. I have a wonderful husband and an amazing 3 yr old. It took my husband and I 8 months before I got pregnant with my son. I did have a hard pregnancy, gestational diabetes, preeclampsia. At 38 weeks I was going to be induced my blood pressure went so high I went into Help Syndrome. Basically liver was shutting down, after an emergency C-section my son was perfectly healthy, my BP went down, diabetes gone and life went on. In October 2010, my husband was let go from his job due to this fabulous economy. Since then he has been Mr Mom, still actively looking for a new job. So that, along with the financial aspect weigh heavily on our minds. We have been actively trying since July 2011. I have been trying to be relaxed about it, trying not to think about it. Doing the ovulation tests ,standing on my head and praying every month. My periods are fairly regular between 27-31 days The last few months I can be anywhere from 3-4 days late and then I get my period. I thought it was hard the first time. I sometimes wonder if God is trying to tell me something. My husband God love him tells me to relax and it will happen when it happens and I know that is probably the case. I'm 35. We both want so much to have another baby. I try not to get upset when someone else says they are pregnant or has a baby. Im truly happy for them, but its hard its like when is it my turn.
Any ideas or good vibes to send this way?
Thanks for listening!