TTC After M/C

Hi, I was on Birth control for 10 years.. We came off BC in December 2009 after the period.. and I never got another period.. We got pregnant with our first in Jan.. But we miscarried in March, due to a blighted ovum. We had a D&C March 16, now I am pushing almost 6 weeks after and I have had no signs of a period!! I want to TTC again but the doctor said we need to wait for at least 1 period after the D&C!! But it just wont come!! Has anyone else had this problem after a d&c how long did it take for your period to come back?

Hi, I am soooo frustrated today, I just started my period again, we have been TTC since March 2009, I got pregnant Aug 2009 and miscarried Oct 22, 2009. We started TTC right away and every month I have my period. We are just waiting for a referral to a fertility specialist now, I don't know how long that will take. I just feel like I am getting older and time is ticking away. When we first decided to have a baby I was 38 now I'm 39 but my birthday is in August. I feel so hopeless and every month I get my period I get so depressed and sad and I think of the baby we lost, if there was anything I did wrong. I don't know if there is anyone out there in my same predicament. Also everyone around me is having babies and I just get so frustrated seeing them with their bellies growing, I try to be happy for them but really I am kinda mad I guess I shouldn't feel like that I have no one to talk to about this stuff, and its frustrating. My b/f and I are also argueing alot about not getting pregnant, blaming each other and everything. I don't know if I should just give up and accept the fact that we are not having a baby.

Hello all

I am new here I was on birth control for 10 years. June was my last BC period. Then normal one in July. Positive HPT Aug 1st. Miscarried Aug 19th. First Cycle the after September 4th 29 days till the next. 35 days till the next... 42 days till the next. 38 day cycle. 35 days til the next. then started tracking for ovulation. Ovulated at 14 days after the start of the first day of my previous period. then then 12 days later my cycle started again. I am getting frustrated. i am so sick of others getting pregnant and having babies. I would be 38 weeks now as well. AHHHHHHHHHHH

I miscarried for the first time at 17. (Twins) I found out when i was about 5 weeks pregnant. (Just a hpt) I got all the symptoms and they continued through out my pregnancy. ( Morning sickness, ect.) When i was 3 and a half months pregnant I had brown discharge. Went to the ER and after 7 hours of test, they FINALLY did an Ultra sound. Only to find out, there wasnt a heartbeat. I had actually lost the babys at 5 or 6 weeks and the sac grew to the size of a 3 and a half month sac. (My body wouldnt process the miscarriage) I then had to have a D&C.

My second pregnancy was 8 months later. It ended around 7 weeks, and I miscarried naturally. It was a blighted ovum. My DR said that i was probably because the egg attached itself to a thin part of my uterus that didnt heal all the way from the D&C.

My husband and I are trying again. But im worried that its going to happen all over again. Im worried that the DR who did my D&C messed it up some how and I'll never beable to carry a child to term.

Has anyone else experienced this? Have you had a miscarriage after a D&C and later on gotten pregnant?

It is so hard to get back up and start trying again. I think we are ready, or maybe we will just continue to take it easy and do it the relaxing way. ..... ???

After two back to back miscarriages in 2009 , I am just so scared. I know we should keep trying because we want this so much, because I can't lose hope, because i know our time will come, because with our luck we need to take advantage of every chance we get!

I try not to think about the miscarriages. I try not to think about it how far along i would be. That is just torture! I must move forward and think about today and the future. yesterday has come and gone.

Please give us a healthy baby. A BFP with a take home baby. :-)

I had a miscarriage at six weeks. I only knew I was pregnant for three weeks, such a small amount of time to fall in love with this precious being. As I wasn't far along the physical effects of the miscarriage were fairly minor; however the emotional effects have taken much longer to heal. Not a day goes by that I don't think about that tiny being, and I find myself still counting down the days to my due date. Were I still pregnant I would have three months to go. We've been trying since then, and no luck yet. I know that what I have gone through is trivial compared to some, and I wouldn't wish a miscarriage on anyone. Good luck to all!