Conception Ambiguities

So I just wanna see if anyone has experienced this or any advice. I have an average day cycle of 35 days. My last period was Oct. 20th. I was due nov. 24th so I tested the 26th (2days late) negative then again on 30th which was 6 days late n bfn again. As for symptoms on cd 15,16 n 17 I had light spotting which I have never had figure probably o'd. We bd'd on cd 18. Then on cd 33,34,35 I had bad af cramps and thought for sure it was coming. My nipples were really sore but now just tender. Yesterday morning I checked my cervix and there was light brown/pink on my tip of finger. Thought af was def on her way but nope and checked cervix again this morning and nothing but creamy cm. Thanks for any input on this. Just never been this late except when pg and never had mid-cycle spotting. 

My last normal period was September 26, 2010 for 4 days. BD around ovulation and Oct 23 I had only a 2 day period that was reddish brown. All HPTs have been negative but I am having symptoms breast tenderness, muscle spasms in my stomach(no pain), constant hunger, decreased sleep I don't sleep through the night. My next AF is due in two days and was feeling nauseated yesterday, acid reflux and indigestion. I just don't want to stress myself into thinking I am pg but hearing different stories makes me wonder what if the HCG just isn't showing or even if AF does come I could still be pregnant. I just want my mind to ease up on the thoughts and not be worried every minute of the day I am awake.

AAaahhh! This is sooo frustrating. Just venting because I really have no one else to vent to. I haven't seen AF in over a month, on CD 43 and I'm normally between 22 and 33 days... Been TTC for 2 months and I've taken 4 HPT and all were negative! I'm waiting out a few more days before I test again. I haven't tested in 2 weeks and DH and I BD about 10 days ago when I had an LH surge (according to the OPK). I'm having some symptoms of pregnancy, but I don't want to get my hopes up too high. I think my body is playing a really mean trick on me! Has anyone out there experienced anything like this?! I feel like I can throw a rock and there's a pregnant woman! all of my friends are pregnant, some with their 3rd or 4th and some just found out and didn't mean to get pg. So unfair. I just want a BFP or AF to show up... something needs to happen!

i am in the same boat .we are trying for our 4th, (3boys) 4 days past AF and only negative results. i always got a screaming positive before.
maybe i am over anxious . i dont know but its making me nuts!

have the same i'm 7 days late, pregnancy test says no, im confused

Told myself that I wouldn't get my hopes up this month.....but of course I did. I thought i was pregnant for sure, even spent sleepless hours last night how I would suprise my husband and our families...telling them we were expecting our first. Finally got to sleep and of course AF appeared. WHEN WILL IT EVER HAPPEN!! really concerned that there is something wrong with me, but of course living in Canada they will only get to see a fertility speacialist if you've been trying for a year. WEll its been 8mnths now.