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Conception Frustrations II?

If you're trying to conceive and it's taking longer than you had hoped, what frustrations are you running into? Is it that just about everyone around you seems to be pregnant? Or, something someone said? Or, is you-know-who (your mom, his mom...) pressuring you or asking when way too often? Does it sometimes feel like TTC is more like Trying to Cope?

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Posted by: WishinandHopin on Mar 25, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

Trying to Stay Postive

The hubby and I are now TTC and its only been two months so far but its been a very long wait to get to that point. I have very patiently waited for years to start TTC while most friends and co workers around had babies, now everyone is cooking or just had thier second.
We have 6 preggo's at work right now, mutiple friends and now just found out my SIL is. They just had an oops. I've held up really well emotionally, but when I found out about her I broke down. I kept telling myself that everyone else was just having thier's now so we would have our time when it came. But now I just hate the feeling of jealousy I get every time its mentioned. (sorry about the vent)

Now i'm trying to stay postive and non-stressed but I feel like I'm going crazy. What do you do when your whole month consists of waiting for OV? I just don't know what to do with myself.

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Posted by: teebs123 on Mar 23, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

concecption frustrations

Hi there, I am new to this site, I have been trying for 9 months now this month i really thought I might have got a BFP but AF turned up 36 days into my cycle, its starting to make me feel quite low, I have had the 21 day blood tests and a scan and apaprently everything is fine so I dont know what else to do really apart from keep trying - I havent shared my concerns with my partner he sees things very black and white and sees it as it will happen when it does and to stop worrying easier said than done when you are getting older (30 the end of this year)it seems everyone around me is pregnant or having babies - my friend fell pregnant within a couple of days coming off the pill! my other friend it took her 18 months.
I can see on here people have been trying for quite a long time - does anyone have any advice - my cycle changes every month it can go from 28 days to like this month 36 days so I never know when I am most fertile!?!?
We havent told anyone we are trying apart from my mum so its hard I dont have anyone to talk to about my frustrations!

thanks and wich luck to everyone trying!! :-)

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Posted by: AshNG on Mar 17, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

To conceive or not to conceive...

My husband and I have been together for over 8 years and we have a wonderful son. I would love to complete my little family with another baby soon, but he is still on the fence about it, not that he doesn't want one at all he just doesn't know if right now would be good. I don't see a any problems but then again maybe I am only being selfish... I guess what I'm asking the viewers is what are some things I can mention or say to try to sway him toward wanting another one?

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Posted by: HOPINGFORAPOSITIVE on Mar 17, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

2 WW after a miscarrage? Anyone relate?

My husband and I have been TTC since September 2009. We found out that we were indeed pregnat in January but 2 days after we found out we lost the baby at 4 1/2 weeks. So we had to wait until I got my first period after the miscarriage and I did on February 3rd. So since then we have been trying with no luck so far. So this month my AF came on March 4th which gave me a cycle of about 26 days. before the miscarriage I was a 28 day cycle. So according to all the charts I should be OV this week. So now I get to play the waiting game again. But since the miscarriage I am just scared that we won't get pregnant again. Everyone says that it will happen when its suppose to but I cant help but have some doubts. Has anyone else gone through these feelings after a miscarriage? How long did it take you to conceive again? Thanks everyone and good luck to all!

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Posted by: Godsgirl81 on Mar 6, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

trying trying trying but still no bambino !!!

My husband and I have been trying to conceive for about two yrs now and still have not succeeded yet , we've done the fertility aid , tried to be constient in our loving making , we've tried pre - seed but still no baby . For a while my cycles were very irregular due to some family stress that was going on but now they are regular 30 to 32 day cycles and we still have yet to get pregnant .

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Posted by: alissat on Mar 4, 2010
Conception Frustrations II?

losing hope

My fiance and i have been trying since june 09 and im starting to give up. My periods were like every 2 wks so i went to doctor she said to chart and now they are normal go figure. I had my daughter nov 08 I want two kids close in age I am young and don't know what the problem is. I wasn't trying with my daughter it just happened and now that im trying no luck. Now we aren't as active with the little one and no alone time. We still are hopeing so well see

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