Conception Frustrations II?

can anyone else relate to this. We're only on our 2nd cycle TTC. 1st cycle was horrible - I just hated it and got so upset when AF arrived. This cycle I've relaxed and gone with the flow. BD has not been that frequent, but lovely! Only managed 1 BD during fertile period so chances are slim, but I'm starting to enjoy being part of a community of women TTC and supporting one another.

But, and here's the BIG BUT, how am I going to feel when AF comes again in about 10 days time? Just before Xmas. I feel positive right now, but when AF arrives I feel I may be plunged into despair.

Can anyone relate to my conflicting emotions and help me keep positive?

Baby dust to all

EJTTC

My husband and I have been TTC for 9 months now. I just found out I have polycistic ovaries and that might be the reason why I haven't been ovulating. We did 2 rounds of Clomid (50 & 100 mg) and still no natural AF. We just did a DNC and a laparoscopy procedure to see if they could find anything (that is when we found out about my ovaries). Supposed to wait another 2 weeks to see if AF will come, if not, on to take provera again then round 3 of Clomid at 150 mg. Sounds like we'll go all the way up to 250 mg and then we'll look into incemination. By then we'll have been trying for a year. This is weird that I have never missed AF once in my life until we started trying and since we started trying, I have only gotten 1 natural AF and that one was 2 months late. I have never been irregular, EVER. I hate this. For the most part, I'm pretty calm and we know that it'll happen when it's the right time, but MAN is this frustrating!

My husband and i have been trying to get pregnant for a year now with no success. Im 29 and he is 39 we have two little girls age 9 and 12. We would love to have another child. I keep thinking did we make a mistake of waiting so long after the youngest to try and have another one. And every body says stop stressing about it "you'l c as soon as u forget about it thats when it will happen" how on gods green earth do you forget about wanting another baby. its like the only thing on my mind i cant help it i have tried everything to keep my mind wondering about WHEN. but then i walk in town and i c pregnant ladies every where. my sister is pregnant one of my friends are pregant one of my neighbors (age 45) is pregant even my dog is pregnant. GOOD LUCK TO ALL THE LADIES OUT THERE TRYING TO CONCIEVE MAY GOD HEAR UR PRAYERS AND ANSWER THEM.

My partner and I are TTC. We have been monitoring my ovulation for 1 year now. I have regular periods every month. They may come a day or two early or late. We are getting ready to try again in a few days and I am needing to know what will help the chances? I am 28 years old and am wanting to be a first time Mom. Any suggestions will help. I have an appointment with my OB-GYN tomorrow and hope everything comes out okay.

For some reason today I'm feeling very emotional. Just wondering when it will be our turn to have this blessing. I have two younger cousins in their early 20's who are almost close to delivering and although I'm extremely happy for them I have to wonder when my time will come. Nobody seems to understand how emotional this can be. The constant crying and wondering if you will ever be able to have a child. I tell myself that I will not stress so much over this byut your heart wants what it wants and it's difficult to comprehend that this is something that may not happen. I'm wondering if I will even try again this month, I don't think I can deal with another let down again. Thanks for listening ladies.

This is my second stint TTC 6 months now and the first using CBFM. We tried before for nearly a year, no charting or testing, but no luck. We saw a fertility specialist then and both were tested and told there was no reason that we wouldn't conceive naturally. We decided to give it a break until 6 months ago because of the pressure we both felt. I can never pin down when I ovulate tried opks etc. have cycles that vary from 36 to 27 days. So I got the CBFM am on CD and having highs since day 9 but no peak. Am so frustrated thought CBFM would be the answer to my prayers. Anyone else using it and not getting a peak?