This is my story!
I got married to my Husbby of 18 months last March. We talked about kids early on in the relationship and knew we both wanted them and wanted them together!
We decided around June/July 09 time to try for our 1st baby!I knew it'd take time for my cycle to get back to normal.After 5 months i got caught in November only to miscarry at 5-6 weeks which was heartbreaking!
Stupidly i didn't think about the risk and got caught straight away to again miscarry at 5-6 weeks i cannot explain how low that made me feel!
After all the heartbreak i decided to take the pill for a couple of months(stopped April time)I drove my poor hubby mad every month around ovulation week. We went away for 2 weeks(end of June just after my AF)
We forgot all about ovulation and enjoyed our hols and i got pregnant,we were amazed and nervous!
All ok until 8 weeks when i had some pink spotting,i was rushed in for an early scan, we were nervous but we got to see our little blob and its heartbeat, i felt so much better and began to think all would be ok!
At 11 weeks (just under 14 days ago)i started spotting pink blood, i was rushed in for a scan next day(the spotting had stopped at that point)to be told the baby was there but there was no heart beat and mesured at just over 10 weeks (my baby had died the previos week)! My world felt like it was falling apart!
To lessen the risk of infection i was scheduled in for a d & c the day after! That day was the worst i've ever experienced!
The thing thats kept me going insane is the fact there now doing tests to see if there anything wrong with me and hubby!
Now i don't know what to do, should i take the gynies advice and wait for my period and try again, or wait a while! Me and hubby want to try again and physically im nearly over this, emotionally i won't be ok untill i get to 12 weeks and see all is ok!
Any advise would be appreciated!
Take Care x