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TTC After M/C

Are you trying to conceive after one or more miscarriages? How long did you (or will you) wait until TTC again? Who or what has been helpful to you during your difficult time: faith, the support of your partner/friends/families (or did you find them unable to relate?), others who you now found out also m/c'd...

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Posted by: Mdg628 on Aug 23, 2010
TTC After M/C

What starts CD1 after m/c?

Just recently m/c on August 12th, 2010 approximately 6 weeks into my pregnancy (empty gestational sac). Although hubby and I weren't trying to concieve, our thoughts changed after seeing the positive signs and the excitement of thinking of our first baby. I would like to get back on track for tracking my cycles (which I did to keep up with my irregular periods) but I don't know what date to use for my last period. Do I use the day I actually m/c the tissue as CD 1 ? Or the day that I started bleeding heavily? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. We would like to begin TCC in about 3-5 months after my body has had time to regulate.

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Posted by: daisy0307 on Jul 28, 2010
TTC After M/C

confused

I lost my baby on July 5th 2010 and i was only 4 weeks 5 days.i started ttc'ing again on july 9th. then 2 weeks later i ended up in the er with severe pain in my pelvic area and my back. so idk what that was. the doc in the er said he thought it was releated to my m/c so he ordered a u/s for that day and i got the results on monday and my doc said it was fine.now my boobs are still very sore and my back is still killing me and i still have the pain in my pelvic area.i havent had a period since my m/c yet so i dont know what to think now.

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Posted by: wanting1baby on Jul 13, 2010
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ttc after 2 miscarriages

Hi everyone, this is my first time here. I have been married for 3 years and have had 2 miscarriages. Both before 6 weeks and both times my period has taken months to come back and is irregular or very long cycles. Every time im a few days late or I think I might have symptoms I cant help but get excited only to test and be negative. On top of that everyone around me seems to be expecting. I cant help but feel envy. How have you guys handled it? Any ideas on how I can better our chances of getting pregnant?

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Posted by: KBerms on Jul 12, 2010
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So close and then its gone in an instance

Well I'm just a little depressed today as I have been around this time of month for the past 4 months. Its nothing compared to some very heart wrenching & trying stories Ive read but I just need to vent.

I've been wanting to be a mother my whole life. I'm married over 2 years & my husband had in January finally started to desire fatherhood. Before this change of heart it seemed everyone around me was getting pregnant.2 close couples of ours who were both newly married, didn't even plan or want their pregnancies at the time were announcing their pregnancy to me.On the outside all smiles, the inside dying & feeling guilty for my deep jealousy.Well we began in Jan & on the 1st try got pregnant. I cant being to tell you the excitement & joy! My cousin being pregnant was so excited. we were planning our pregnancies together. I was due early nov, she sep. It was turning out to be so perfect until the bleeding began. I knew right away. Shortly after, I miscarried painfully. To describe the pain and disappointment would be to difficult to pour out into words. For 4 months now we've been persistently trying. I'm frustrated bc my cycle has been affected & is now different. the af date has been coming later each month throwing off my ovulation tracking. I really thought this was the month due to many strong symptoms. The day I was late was my cousins baby shower, later that day it came with a vengeance of course on the day I was most vulnerable, really thinking & hoping this was it. Right after having someone else's joy and reality play out right on front of me. Thanks for listening I really just wanted a place to vent and share my story so far. I believe God has a time and plan for all of us. My cousin waited 5 years, just before they were about to try invetro they conceived naturally-they were just about to lose hope. God is faithful, we will all be proven this. He sees the big picture. Good luck and baby dust to all! Here's to next months success.

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Posted by: LS072505 on Jul 7, 2010
TTC After M/C

What's going on???

Okay, here's my story. Have been tracking my OV & AF on this site since Aug 2007. DH and I always went with the old what ever "happens" happens. In Dec 2008, found out I was pregnant but only ending in a M/C Feb 2009. I had a D&C & we had the fetus tested which turned out to be that it was because of Trisomy 18. We were devastated and Dr. said to wait 6 months. We only waited until about 4 months in until we were trying again. Dr. suggested that we visit a GC which thought that my DH and I were perfectly healthy and M/C turned out to be a fluke. Here we are almost 1yr and half later and still no baby. I'm starting to think that there may be something wrong! Has this ever happened to anyone? Thoughts would be greatly apprecitated...LOBDTA!!!

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Posted by: NayNae on Jun 29, 2010
TTC After M/C

NayNae reply to how soon do I ttc after miscarriage

well.... I have had two miscarriages in 2 years...& just had my last one at the end of May...&& dh& I decided to try again right away...due to our Faith & because of listening to my mom........&& we are just ready to move forward...physically I had to have a normal cycle after the miscarriage...but soon as my af is done...its back to trying.(well the natural approach)

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