I have heard it all and SEEN it all

I am a Military wife so NOT having children is like so not the thing! I get asked all the time by the other wives and even their children why I dont have children. They aske me all the time whats wrong. Is it me or him? Have we gotten tested? How long? All that stuff. I hear from all of them "if you just stop trying and relax, dont think about it, when you least expect it you will get pregnant" OMG you have children right!!?? You dont have to worry. Also I get the "I'd love to be single again. You have the life" I say to that then give me your kids. Grass is always greener I guess... I try to just say Yep and brush it off till later when people get on the baby kick with me. I guess what upsets me most is watching all my family and friends get pregnant by just fallin on their husbands. They get off the pill two weeks later they are pregnant. I who havent been on BC for almost 2years and have been BD for 16months CANT get pregnant. Leave me alone... I have had enough advice and you rubbing it in my face about your life... Just let me be!