TTC - To Say or Say Not?
While Trying to Conceive, have you found others (even people you barely know) asking prying questions or offering unsolicited advice? Do you think they mean well and just don't think, or are they being meddling and/or on the rude side? Do you respond, ignore it, brew over it all night...?

dont tell

Posted by: gypsy86 on Fri Jan 25, 2008

i've been married 6 months and i know a large part of both of our families was expecting a baby exactly 9 months after the wedding. so far we have nothing, hubby used to tell his friends if he thought i was preg for that month, but it got awkward so we just stopped talking about it. if people ask if we want kids we tell them yes, and "we're working on it" but now his grandparents who were polite and only mentioned it once helped us think up the babyfund. tell everybody that once the "babyfund" reached a certain amount then you will have kids. either they stop arguing or donate to the babyfund. no downside.

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