Being a SAHM is a great choice...though chores are boring...

I have been a SAHM to my 15 month old son since he was born. It was ultimately the best decision for our family becuase my husband works a LOT of hours, and had I continued to work I would have as well. The decision as worked out well because our husband really only sees our son on the weekends anymore (since he gets home after our son is asleep) and I know that had I still been working as well I would also not see our son that much. Being at home, I am able to take care of our son, our dogs, and our house, leaving DH less stressed to tend to his work. There are days that I miss the thrill of working (i.e. completing a big project, my Blackberry, my dayplanner, coffee breaks with colleagues)...but I know that if I was working I would wish that I could be home too. It is one of the "grass is always greener" situations I think. If anyone is considering staying home, I would strongly urge you to envision how your daily life will be. You are home a lot. You have to be a self-motivator to get the housework done (since it does get old). Talk with your DH about what he envisions your role to be (i.e. is he now free from housework too?). Consider setting aside some money to join a play group so that you can meet other moms in your area. The hardest part for me is the routine. Everyday is the same, and that gets old. I mean, how many times do I really have to unload the dishwasher in a week or do laundry? But...I am also the first to admit that this is my "dream job". I love being home with my son EVERYDAY and getting to watch him grow up. My heart aches for my husband as I know that he would love to be able to spend so much time with our son too. All in all, if you can afford it and think that you can tolerate the negatives to the job (chores) than I would HIGHLY recommend it.