being a sahm or working mom

I am the mommy of the best little boy ever:) i have mixed thoughts on being a SAHM, i would love to stay at home with him, cause when you get to thinking about it you daycare provied has your childern more that you do throughout the week, i work 8:00 or 4:30, so when i get to thinking about that that makes me sad:(, but i dont know if i could handle staying at home day in and day out, i also think that would drive me nuts,but it might be a different story if my husband and i could afford for me to quite my job and stay home, so that is another factor that has to play in. If we had the money, for me to stay home, my son and i could go to the local pool and have a pool day of the libary you know just different activities, but we live 15 to 20 minutes from 2 different towns, and with gas prices its just to expensive, to hop in the car when ever you want. If i could have my cake and eat it to i would pick a job, that i could choose my own hours, where i could have time through the week to spend time the my little man, just a little man and mommy day!if i didnt spell something right sorry, just over look it:)