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TTC - To Say or Say Not?
While Trying to Conceive, have you found others (even people you barely know) asking prying questions or offering unsolicited advice? Do you think they mean well and just don't think, or are they being meddling and/or on the rude side? Do you respond, ignore it, brew over it all night...?
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Posted by:
BellaRagazza
on Wed Aug 6, 2008
My husband and I are TTC... I have only been off of Birth Control for 4 Months now and am giving my body some time to get back to normal.
We decided not to tell anyone we are trying b/c of the pressure. His family, Mostly his mom and older sister keep asking us when we are going to finally have our first child. This alone has been stressing me out. I am so scared that it will take me a while to conceive and I dont want to deal with all the questions. My husbands sister has only one child and her daughter wants a baby brother or sister... His sister keeps hounding us when we are going to finally have a baby so her daughter will have a little cousin. As a woman who likes to keep her private life private, I dont like dealing with these questions every time we are together. I can only imagine the questions if she knew we were trying.
It is very hard to not say anything to my friends because I am jumping out of my skin with joy that we are finally trying.
Who knows.. maybe its just different b/c this will be our firt child.
We decided not to tell anyone we are trying b/c of the pressure. His family, Mostly his mom and older sister keep asking us when we are going to finally have our first child. This alone has been stressing me out. I am so scared that it will take me a while to conceive and I dont want to deal with all the questions. My husbands sister has only one child and her daughter wants a baby brother or sister... His sister keeps hounding us when we are going to finally have a baby so her daughter will have a little cousin. As a woman who likes to keep her private life private, I dont like dealing with these questions every time we are together. I can only imagine the questions if she knew we were trying.
It is very hard to not say anything to my friends because I am jumping out of my skin with joy that we are finally trying.
Who knows.. maybe its just different b/c this will be our firt child.
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