TTC - To Say or Say Not?
While Trying to Conceive, have you found others (even people you barely know) asking prying questions or offering unsolicited advice? Do you think they mean well and just don't think, or are they being meddling and/or on the rude side? Do you respond, ignore it, brew over it all night...?

Three groups when TTC

Posted by: tryingtobehopeful on Sat Dec 20, 2008

I've been trying to conceive for five years. I have found that people come in three groups the first group can relate to my frustration. The second group keeps trying to give advice like we're doing it wrong. And all the weird ways they got pregnant that I've tried a thousand times already. The third group keeps saying wonderful stuff like "What's so hard about it"? "Why do you want a baby so bad"? "Stop trying it will happen." I honestly don't want to know how other people just did it once and got pregnant. I think people need to back off. It's nice hearing that I'm not the only one. However, the other two groups just make me want to let out a blood curdling scream. It depends what mood I'm in how I react to the advice.

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