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TTC - To Say or Say Not?
While Trying to Conceive, have you found others (even people you barely know) asking prying questions or offering unsolicited advice? Do you think they mean well and just don't think, or are they being meddling and/or on the rude side? Do you respond, ignore it, brew over it all night...?
TTC - I feel the need to talk about it
Posted by:
EJTTC
on Wed Nov 18, 2009
We're on cycle 1 of TTC.
I've already told a few friends we're trying. They've been expecting it for ages. Some have been really supportive, others are like "Ooh, don't tell anyone until you fall and you're AT LEAST past the 1st trimester."
That's so frustrating!
It's not like I wanna tell the whole world, but it's a big step for me and my partner so I do wanna tell some people and I want them to be pleased.
If we do conceive I know there are risks but I still want to be able to talk about the WHOLE process.
My partner is not the type to want to talk about things until they're actually happening so I do feel I need to talk things through with friends, especially since this is our first try so it's a really big deal even though I'm not expecting 1st time success.
The waiting is horrible! Soonest I'll know is in 2 days time, (If AF visits) but it could be another week as my cycle is irregular. Hoping it will be easier to wait next month!
I've already told a few friends we're trying. They've been expecting it for ages. Some have been really supportive, others are like "Ooh, don't tell anyone until you fall and you're AT LEAST past the 1st trimester."
That's so frustrating!
It's not like I wanna tell the whole world, but it's a big step for me and my partner so I do wanna tell some people and I want them to be pleased.
If we do conceive I know there are risks but I still want to be able to talk about the WHOLE process.
My partner is not the type to want to talk about things until they're actually happening so I do feel I need to talk things through with friends, especially since this is our first try so it's a really big deal even though I'm not expecting 1st time success.
The waiting is horrible! Soonest I'll know is in 2 days time, (If AF visits) but it could be another week as my cycle is irregular. Hoping it will be easier to wait next month!
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